Fairness

I cannot understand the Law of this world.  When he takes out a Non-Removal Order, I do not need to be consulted.  It was a decision reducing me to choose between my child or my family.  He can be granted it because of his fear.  But when I want to go back home, his views need to be heard.  Why wasnt my views heard when he took out the Non-Removal Order?  It is such a stupid Law.  Ridiculous.  Completely one-sided.  It is OK to imprison someone but it is NOT OK for someone to seek a better life.  It is OK to make me choose between my child or my parents but it is NOT OK for him to choose.